Families have a hard time letting go of who their other family memebers "used" to be. My soon to be ex husbands family call me "that snotty bitch". I don't have a name as far as they are concerned. Whatever.
The thing about family is this .. you are supposed to be a family no matter what. Those are the people that you are supposed to fight for .. not with. They are all you have at the end of the day. Some people just don't realize what they have. They just can't accept things unless it is on their terms. And that really is a shame. It is really sad and will be regretted some day.
I'm sorry that you have to deal with this. But for you to be going through what you are going through with your daily life, the move, the kids, the house etc .. for them to even start this again NOW of all times just goes to show their true character. Just remember that and deal with it from that perspective. You can only do so much.
So, take care of you and your family and let the rest wallow in their own misery makings.
can I say that I just love the fact that you are a super blogger these days?!?! i'm sad for you that you're sad, but i LOVE that it means that you blog all the time!!
as far as whatever this shit is that is going down, I'm soo sorry! families can totally suck sometimes! as long as you and mr. f stick together, nothing else really matters. you two are fabulous, have two fabulous kids, and a new, fabulous house!
Lauren, you are actually making me jealous... must get back on the treadmill ASAP!
Hey thanks everyone! I've been really trying to weigh whether I wanted to avoid getting into it on the blog/debating whether I needed to vent about iton the blog/had the right to say whatever I damn well please/let things blow over....I guess the scales tipped in favor of venting ;)
If people think you can mold a person into what you want them to be, then that's the first mistake. One of the reasons people do get divorced is because they CAN'T change their spouse, and can't live with them as is! It is so obvious from your videos, your laughter, and Mr F's constant support of you that you guys are a good and happy couple. I guess it's just a hard thing for some people to accept, who their children turn out to be. I hope I can be more tolerant and let my children live a life that makes them happy.
Meanwhile, it seems like since you did not discuss the ILs on the blog this time, that there shouldn't be any new trouble brewing. Seems like you did the "right" thing... ?
Gigs, "If people think you can mold a person into what you want them to be, then that's the first mistake. One of the reasons people do get divorced is because they CAN'T change their spouse, and can't live with them as is! "
What an awesome comment! I wish I had made it ;) So completely true.
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Uh oh.
yeah.
the video is taking forever to update... but the labels kind of give you the gist ;)
UH oh indeed.
i'd block their IPs or get woopra and IM them the next time you see them on .. THAT'D probably freak them out enough to keep them away.
btw, i've been channeling you on the treadmill. pushing past the hour mark. totally works! hope you get your's unpacked soon.
Oh my -- things are afoot! Hang in there, lady.
oh no! I can see the video, but don't have my speakers hooked up on my computer yet, so I can't hear. I'm sorry someone is giving you crap again.
Families have a hard time letting go of who their other family memebers "used" to be. My soon to be ex husbands family call me "that snotty bitch". I don't have a name as far as they are concerned. Whatever.
The thing about family is this .. you are supposed to be a family no matter what. Those are the people that you are supposed to fight for .. not with. They are all you have at the end of the day. Some people just don't realize what they have. They just can't accept things unless it is on their terms. And that really is a shame. It is really sad and will be regretted some day.
I'm sorry that you have to deal with this. But for you to be going through what you are going through with your daily life, the move, the kids, the house etc .. for them to even start this again NOW of all times just goes to show their true character. Just remember that and deal with it from that perspective. You can only do so much.
So, take care of you and your family and let the rest wallow in their own misery makings.
Smooches Mrs. F.
what the heck dont these people know we all got your back Mrs.F, and I like all the videos.
can I say that I just love the fact that you are a super blogger these days?!?! i'm sad for you that you're sad, but i LOVE that it means that you blog all the time!!
as far as whatever this shit is that is going down, I'm soo sorry! families can totally suck sometimes! as long as you and mr. f stick together, nothing else really matters. you two are fabulous, have two fabulous kids, and a new, fabulous house!
and we totally got your back!
Geez, this is exactly what you need along with all the moving stuff and unpacking.
So sorry stuff is going down. That kind of stuff is so mentally exhausting.
Lauren,
you are actually making me jealous... must get back on the treadmill ASAP!
Hey thanks everyone!
I've been really trying to weigh whether I wanted to avoid getting into it on the blog/debating whether I needed to vent about iton the blog/had the right to say whatever I damn well please/let things blow over....I guess the scales tipped in favor of venting ;)
If people think you can mold a person into what you want them to be, then that's the first mistake. One of the reasons people do get divorced is because they CAN'T change their spouse, and can't live with them as is! It is so obvious from your videos, your laughter, and Mr F's constant support of you that you guys are a good and happy couple. I guess it's just a hard thing for some people to accept, who their children turn out to be. I hope I can be more tolerant and let my children live a life that makes them happy.
Meanwhile, it seems like since you did not discuss the ILs on the blog this time, that there shouldn't be any new trouble brewing. Seems like you did the "right" thing... ?
Gigs,
"If people think you can mold a person into what you want them to be, then that's the first mistake. One of the reasons people do get divorced is because they CAN'T change their spouse, and can't live with them as is! "
What an awesome comment! I wish I had made it ;)
So completely true.
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